In today’s evolving educational landscape, more and more parents are stepping into the role of educator—whether by choice or necessity. From full-time homeschooling to supplemental learning at home, parent-led education is no longer a fringe movement. It’s a dynamic, personal, and increasingly respected approach to child development.
Today I will introduce you to a set of super practical parenting tips – the 12 rules for raising children in the United States! Each rule is like a growth compass tailored for our little baby, ensuring that your baby will thrive in the sunshine of love!
1️⃣ The Law of Belonging
The warmth of home is the harbor for children. Make sure that the home is full of love and harmony, just like this. Let the children know that no matter the wind and rain, this will always be his strongest backing!
2️⃣ The Law of Hope
Don’t forget to plant the seeds of hope for your children! Every sentence of “You can do it, baby!” is the source of their motivation to move forward. Let the children always believe that the future is promising!
3️⃣ The Law of Strength
Fighting with children? NO WAY! What we have to do is to guide rather than suppress, illuminate their way with the light of wisdom, and let them learn to solve problems with their own strength!
4️⃣ Management Rule
Before children grow up, we are their superheroes. Discipline is not a constraint, but another form of love. Set boundaries for them and teach them responsibility and self-discipline!
5️⃣ Sound Rule
Listening is the beginning of love! Squat down, look at your children with your eyes, listen to their little world, and you will find that there are countless treasures hidden there!
6️⃣ Role Model Rule
Every move we make is a model for children to imitate. So, first become the kind of person you want your children to be! Teaching by example is powerful!
7️⃣ Seek Common Ground While Reserving Differences
Respect every child’s wonderful idea, even if it looks a little “different”. Remember, every child is a unique starry sea!
8️⃣ Punishment
Use punishment carefully! Otherwise, be careful to arouse the little guy’s “little universe”! Find a more positive way to let children learn from mistakes and grow healthier!
9️⃣ Consequences
Let children experience the natural consequences of their actions, so that they can learn to be responsible and understand that every choice has its weight.
🔟 Structural Law
Establish a respect for morality and law from an early age, let children understand the rules of the game in society, and be a good citizen who abides by the law!
1️⃣1️⃣ Twenty-yard Rule
Give children enough space to explore, but at the same time keep an eye on them to ensure their safety. This “twenty-yard” distance is just right!
1️⃣2️⃣ Four W Rule
Who? Where? What? When? Children’s safety is no small matter. These four questions should always be kept in mind to protect them every moment!
Many parents doubt themselves when taking on the role of teacher. But research—and real families—show that you don’t need to be a professional educator to raise a confident, curious learner.
You need:
✔️ Time
✔️ Patience
✔️ Curiosity
✔️ A willingness to grow alongside your child
Home education is not about perfection—it’s about building a relationship-based, responsive learning life that reflects your values and your child’s potential.